My addict sister is in another crises with her oldest daughter which is 18 and lives out on her own with a healthy boyfriend,so to try and stay out of the drama and chaos of a/ sister and her being very emotional and crying can't eat,etc all on account of her daughters bad attitude toward her,says her moms nothing but drama,anyway I'm just myob,and asking her if she is gonna be ok ,another episode of my sister having a breakdown,their getting closer together,her breakdowns and she has mentioned her health  may not be good stomach problems,ulcers,pains in her arm,etc,scary,but she says nobody can fix her but herself,or help her , I'm just trying to be compassionate with her during this time ,lots of drama she got going on with herself but won hardly share it with me,I'm in my early stages of recovery here with my disease,and don't feel like I'm of any help at all,oh my I just do t want nothing to happen to her ,I very well know the 3 c ,I cannot cure her problems or can I change her and I surely cant cure her I can only work on me myself but I can help sister with getting her to a dr,or offering an ear or shoulder to cry on ,I keep getting a gut feeling that this is just one of many breakdowns before the huge one comes along like the straw that broke the camels back I just don't know when or where it will happen but it will sooner or later mean while all I have is you my only family and only ones I can trust,thanks a heap for listening just trying to get a better perspective on this in keeping my sanity through it all.......easy,easy,easy........lu