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Hi-So today is a day to celebrate love and appreciation of loved ones. That is easy for me to do except with my A. I did buy a generic card and some scratch offs. For me I see several presents waiting. I tell my A I am no longer "in love" with her. I love her as a human being, a family member, and she is more like a sister. She killed my romantic feelings over the last 10 years of her drinking, driving, sneaking around, and lying. I am totally honest with her about all of this. So I'm not going to feel guilty today. I am sad over the loss of what I had or thought I had. ODAT. I am ready for today, Lyne
Lyne - happy Valentine's Day! Work today to just love yourself - that should be enough! (((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Lynn thanks for the message on love and it caused me to think that self love is also a worthy love. God doesn't create any junk eh? And you can let us love you also because you are certainly loveable. ((((hugs))))
