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got a call from mortgage company and found out AH has not paid them for 2 months like he promised. From all reports he has had a accident with a neighbor and has been hiding his car because he doesnt have insurance. So with a tall male friend of the family im going back to THE HOUSE and will try to get AH to write a check for $6,000 so i can proceed with quick deed to get out of the house. Also, he is incapable of finding the papers in the house for taxes etc which i have to get. Im dreading this visit. I havnt been back or seen him since dec 17. He will either be drunk out of his mind and cry or drunk and angry or?? Wish me luck guys in my attempt at detachment and using other alanon tools
Alyce - ditto what Betty says - prayers for a productive peaceful outcome for your 'fieldtrip'...
Keep us posted!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
