The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
As I sit here and type I am shaking,my granddaughter is telling the truth, she was molested.The family is coming together to support my daughter and my granddaughter,my heart is aching for my daughter,what a terrible thing to be betrayed like that by her husband,I can't imagine the pain.She is filing for a divorce now.Everyone is coming together to be supportive,though and that is a good thing.I am so angry at this betrayal.I want to punch him in the face.
(((Mary))) - positive thoughts and prayers continue from my small part of the world.
Know that we are here for you....keep coming back!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
((Mary)) your feelings are very normal and human Glad you shared them here and I will pray that HP will replace your anger with serenity ,courage and wisdom to walk this difficult path .
I am feeling much better this evening,I spent the day with my daughter.We cried a lot and talked a lot.I went with her to get the divorce papers.She is a strong girl,but still in the early stages.Right now she feels numb,I think the whole family feels numb and in shock.I know she is going to need a lot of support and my son-in-law will have his own demons to face, there isn't enough time for me to waste on being angry with him.
Still sending prayers and positive thoughts your way - you are doing great and we are here for you!
(((Hugs))) for all!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
