It's bad enough growing up in a alcoholic home ,my sister moved in with me so it's me my sister and my a fb stays here a lot,my sister has nothing good to say about our growing up in front of others all my siblings are like that, very imbarressing when everytime I bring up something good about our growing up with an a father and codependent mom,it's always negative thrower back at me or its ..i must've had a different set of parents than her ,I just like always try to control the conversation by quickly changeling the whole subject,but it never fails she has to tell it,I'd love to have some good positives to tell freinds even if it's only a dream that I had that seemed true I believe in building a good family name and not constantly bashing it makes us even look like hoodlums I look for the good or try to always think of the good ,and leave the bad out.after all it's about us today we are all grown up with grown children,I feel like it makes us look and sound bad,worthless,etc.to keep rehashing it.im like please let it go,let's rebuild a good family name beginning now my siblings say I must be in Daniel and don't want to see it ,no I'm not in denial I'm very aware of what went on in our childhood but I either don't talk about it or think of something good......just had to vent here again before I blow up ,,,,thanks for allowing me to ramble on.any esh on this would be very welcomed...........hugs looking up