The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
When I heard the news that my spouse's drinking buddies, a couple, have moved back from CA., I have to be honest and admit it did sting for about 5 minutes. And then I realized that those people did not cause my spouse's lying, sneaking, and dangerous driving. Furthermore, from my alanon toolbox comes a host of good tools that will keep me afloat, if not serene. Without program, I would already be a nervous, suspicious, and controlling mess, and I know I don't have to do that again. No matter what my A does, I truly believe I will be OK. Amen HP. With gratitude,Lyne
Can totally relate. It's so easy to get "mad" at the buddies, but they aren't exactly tying my husband down and pouring drinks down his throat. Good job working your program!
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I can throw all the fits, all the dishes, the telephone and anything else I want at the Alcoholics and in the end all I have done is teach them how to catch my BS.
Nice job Lyne - I see you and the program choosing peace and serenity!
Keep it up and just for today, choose to stay on your side of the street.
(((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
