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Post Info TOPIC: Pressing problem


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Pressing problem


My ABF got a call early this morning that his cousin had a manic break at his friends and to please come help. I have work this morning but I told him if he needs me I will come with him. He said he was not sure that was upto me. I'm learning not to give help unless asked but I can't help but feel uneasy about not going.



-- Edited by ItsAllAboutMeMC on Friday 11th of December 2015 12:09:21 PM



-- Edited by ItsAllAboutMeMC on Friday 11th of December 2015 12:15:04 PM

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I hope they are getting professionals involved. There's a temptation for people to think, "Oh, I can handle my family member's severe medical/emotional problems myself" - but there is a reason people train for years to be able to deal with these things.  Take care of yourself.



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I had several calls this week..I let my HP handle them and everything worked out

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He is getting professional help. I just talked to him and they are at the hospital now admitting him.

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Good, keep your fingers crossed.

(((((( iaamm))))

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It is so good to stay out of HP's business .. hard however necessary ..

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Glad to hear he is getting some help :)

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