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Hub has been gone for 2 weeks. Came Sunday and spent a very chaste night. Was here Monday when I got home from work. Was not drinking. Wants to know where we are headed. He can come home anytime he wants to, but has resentment towards me. I love him, but have handed him over to HP. Am working hard to stay focused on myself. Told him I do not want a divorce. When I mentioned alcohol may be the problem, he got very tense. When I went out for a walk and came back, he was gone. Have not heard from him since. Mond. he wanted to know if we could let go of the past (told him I already had) but he cannot seem to get past it. I will hold him in my prayers. Thanks to the room and the board for giving me the tools I needed to come as far as I have, and I'm going a whole lot further! I have a lot to learn, and a lot to give, once I get better. I just hope there is still a chance for my A and I. If there is, I will be better able to cope with my own life.
I am also very very grateful for this group which gives me tools beyond resentment to deal with the a. I would not be able to go beyond resentment before. I still re-visit the past but I do not live in it.
Hi Becky you are doing great. Amazing how simple some of the alanon tools are when you apply them. I hope you and your A can work through this difficult time and remember we are here whenever you need us. Luv Leo xx
((Becky)) My prayers are with You.