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I am going to another funeral today, a dear aunt has passed and while we have this going on her brother was driving on a very dark road and struck what he believed to be a deer,he stopped and looked but didn't find anything and drove home.The following day a young woman was found over the hill.He is heartsick over it.Of course the local people are making assumptions and posting nasty remarks on facebook.I am staying out of the drama and just focusing on the funeral.I t is good to be able to stay centered while a lot of drama is going on.I just leave it in my higher powers hands as I don't know what he has planned for people.He does drink and I don't know if he was drinking at the time,but maybe it is time for a wake up call for him.
Mary - (((Hugs))), Thoughts and Prayers headed your way....Sorry for your loss!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
