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YARNCRAZY


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my AH has been detoxing from his latest binge at a motel about an hour away from home. he got totally blitzed and from what i can hear fom the phone calls, he is just barely coming around tonite. Meanwhile, I have secuured some funds to leave him. however im crying alot. its such a heatbreak to have to leave a spouse after 25 yrs. Not knowing, if u can make it on your own and having all those memories flooding back. ....blankstare



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(((Alyce))) Prayers and positive thoughts on the way. Prayers for courage, serenity and wisdom never go unanswered.

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Do what's good for you! ((((( Alyce)))))

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Sending you my thoughts and prayers. I have traveled a similar journey. We were married 29 years when I finally had had enough. I didn't know how I was going to make it, but somehow, with the help of my HP, I survived- my AH died two years later- before our divorce was finalized. Take care of YOU!

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GE

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I am uplifted to hear you are looking into changing what you can....You have been miserable and sharing about it a long time - Which is fine. Totally fine, but it's been hard to watch/read your suffering. I am praying for you and just want you to know that being scared is natural and WAY better than being hopeless and miserable. Of course you can make it Alyce...We are here for you.

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Prayers for you {{Alyce}} for strength and wisdom.



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Prayers also from my world to yours. Positive thoughts headed your way too.

Take good care of yourself!

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