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just as i thought.. ah goes away for the weekend and gets totally wasted and now cant drive home and be at work tomorow. didnt need 1 minute in school to predict that...
each time he does this, he is in more danger of his brother firing him and 1 step closer to homelessness for the both of us. my cousin who claims she is going to help me, is unreachable.
just venting. i have already processed this in my head as it relates to my life. sorry for being vague, going to read paper and have my coffee. see ya online in group
I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I know how hard it is to watch them fumble and be at a loss to really do anything about it. I hope your paper and coffee helped to sooth and calm you. I often sit with a cup of tea in the evening to take time for myself. It does help, whatever is going on. Hugs.
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown
(((Hugs))) to you from me too! My hope is today has brought you a new outlook and a different set of events - happy and positive ones. I too am sending prayers and positive thoughts your way!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Sounds like your a little upset but don't worry he will continue to keep you this way unless you take charge and take care of you. I know been there many times but pray to never go there again.
(((( hugs ))))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
