The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Mirandac, everyone has their own method and ways. You are
doing what is most comfortable, as you become accustomed
to your new life. It takes time to emerge and you are doing
great!!
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"Forgiveness doesn't excuse bad behavior, but it
does prevent bad behavior from destroying your heart". ~ unknown
Love your share and love the self-care and action I 'see' or 'hear'.......I have to agree that the support here is top notch and it has carried me as well through some terribly painful times.
It's such a gift to know that we can come here and share openly and honestly and get ESH + loving support. What a gift.
I'm so glad you are here and that you found your truth and wrote this post. I too believe that the best is yet to come - keep doing your thing and trust your HP! It looks so good on you!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
It will be less so as you continue to do the work you have been. It is showing in this post and will do more in the future. So beautiful to see you grow. ((((hugs))))
I am just trying to relax. I had someone suggesting
that i should be more ready than i was to start getting
out more. Yes i want that too but i need to heal me and
adjust to My new life
I have been a married woman for half My life here i sit
alone in a new apartment and enviroment. I lost my
identity and i had loved my husband a great Deal.
I know what i need to do ahead, very aware of the rest
Of my recovery journey. I Tried a few new alanon meetings.
I might Even go to church if i can. i need to get centered
Again.
It will come i am healing a little more every day now.
