Welcome Holdemfoldem  I am so sorry to read of this sad ourtcome but will note that since alcoholism is a chronic, progressive fatal, disease that can be arrested but never cured, what happend with your daughter is not unusual for this disease.

Living with this disaese we need a supportive community so that we can learn new tools to live by and receive support as we try to implement them.  Alanon is that program.    Face to face meetings are held in most communities and the hot line nmber is in the whie pages.

It is here I learned that I did not cause the disease, cannot control it and cannot cure it.   The best I can do is to learn to focus on  myself in a healthy fashion and continue to live life on life's terms,  one day at a time.

Keep coming back here as well-- You are not alone.

Welcome as well to MIP Holdemfoldem.  I am sorry for this disappointing

news and hope that you are in an al-anon face to face group as well

as talking on with us on this forum.  You certainly will get from us

a great deal of understanding for what you are going through with your

daughter.  Alcoholism is a chronic disease for which there is no cure,

it can be arrested but not cured.  I do not have any experience with

my AH ever trying to stop, he is in complete denial, but I understand

that when an A does try to quit drinking that many times 

they are not successful and must try again and I hope that your 

daughter does try again with success.  Please keep coming back!

Thanks for welcomes and well wishing all.  I was sorry to hear of so much pain and will pray for you!  I live in Las Vegas and haven't been able to find local al-anon meetings but have attended a few nar-anon meetings.  Any help finding some local al-anon meetings would be appreciated.  Also, any tips/leads on fiinding a sponsor would be nice.  Fwiw though, I feel this forum will be very thereudic.  I pray I can be a healing balm to each of you as well.

Welcome.  It looks like there may be some Las Vegas meetings listed here: http://www.nevadaal-anon.org/.  I also see a listing of:

Howdy Holdem, I really feel for you. The female alcoholic has a much easier time finding a meal ticket. If she wasn't hooking up with a nonfunctional drunk who is also being enabled, it would be someone else that would enable her. I'm only saying this because I hope it may help you detach some from how maddening the situation is with the boyfriend and his parents. If your daughter was going to relapse anyhow (which apparently she was), she would have found another enabler and will continue to until she really desperately wants this and wants it for the long term. I'm so sorry you've been put through this. There is always hope. Of course hope for you is under your own control. Hope for her...there is always hope there too. I didn't get sober til I was 36.