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lookingup


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Is wat I call a just about gonna be a full blown alanon relapse not s

ip wished it were a slip  ....falling right back into bad relationships gonna get hurt I'm my thinking is just that I'm setting my self up for another set back just haven't let him move in my home  I pray I do t fall into that situation again,he has no permanant place motel room only carpenter so no work due to rain etc etc.....need esh here too,trying to work on me .not another messed up man thanks again for listening just haveing a really hard time talking or telling this one what I need or want he is nice,kind etc...but does drugs and drinks alcohol.same thing here I am expecting different results by going down the same path as before I guess.i dunno..............lookingup concerned .



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Saucy


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(((HUG)))   YOU are ALL that YOU need. 

Men are just the icing on the cake. 

Be kind to yourself, you have friends here.



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Looking up Please keep coming here and check out some alanon face to face meetings Please write an asset and gratitude list and share it here. You are
enough.

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Jerry F


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Grab a hold of your sponsor hemline and your HP's cloak and hang on for dear life because it is your life dear that is in threat.  Here's a slogan to remember often.  "When in doubt" (of anything to do)... "Don't" do it.   "Turn it Over".    (((((hugs))))) smile



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Iamhere


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My sponsor once told me that if I am concerned about a decision/action/choice, I truly need to PAUSE and PRAY. I am now of the opinion that when something feels uncomfortable, my HP is tapping me to rethink and possible change up my next right step.

I know when I arrived in Al-Anon, it was suggested to not make any big changes/decisions for at least 6 months. I was so used to reactive/emotional decisions made in a vacuum process that once I got in the habit of relying on HP, my sponsor and program friends, it all got so much better/easier.

(((hugs to you)))!!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 
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