The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
So I have effectively put even more distance between my ex-A and I by getting a person to do my correspondence for child related issues. I also requested that he get someone on his side. This has been happening for two months now. It has been exactly what I needed. He has tried to go around the arrangements, however as there are more people involved in the situation he is not busting boundaries.
I think it also helped I had the police call him and give him a warning that if he did not stop they were going to gather evidence for criminal harassment.
I am emotionally healing and finding time to delve into program now.
It is also amazing how your thinking becomes clear.
Way to take action necessary to protect you, your son and your boundaries! I applaud you for finding the strength and courage to ask for the help necessary to work your program and have peace.
YAY that the end result is more peace of mind to work on the program/you. I see it as a direct result of the positive steps you were willing to take using the program and tools.
May today be great and may your serenity and peace continue. (((hugs))) to you and your boy!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
