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so ah got a new car and already blew off the inportant day of going to get the puff device and his resticted liscense so now he is rolling the dice by drinking today. so i took his keys so he wont kill anyone at least for 2 days in his car. he is such a lost cause.. now he says he is suffering from incontinece of his poop.
i told him i wont drive with him til he gets his alcohol puffer and his liscense. he woke me up this morning at 5am just to tell me he wasnt gonna go to his appts. he knows i have insomnia and was finally asleep..his thinking or lack of, is so messed up by the booze which also makes him selfish.
he is being an irratable a.....h.... Im trying to keep my distance and do my own thing.
It sounds as if you've set a great boundary! Take care of you and know we're here.
I too have insomnia and it's so frustrating when I finally get to sleep and get woken up. I try to meditate and/or read something program related in the hopes I can quickly lighten the moment.
Hang in there...you aren't alone!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
