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hotrod


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Good Morning all

Today is the 8th anniversary of my son's passing from this disease  I miss him every moment of every day.

 



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Thoughts and prayers are with you.
(((Betty)))

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Hugs to you Betty, God bless you.

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Thoughts and prayers sent your Betty!



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Prayers in honor of your son.



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Holding you in prayer Betty. I know you miss him.

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God bless,hold and be with you dear Betty,today and every day.



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My heartfelt prayers to you today Betty. You are an inspiration to so many people on this board. I think your son was very blessed to have you for his mother and I am sure he is proud of you every day, seeing how far you have come in this program.

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Prayers and hugs to you today, Betty. God bless you and comfort you today.

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Sending prayers and hugs as you celebrate his life.  ((((Betty)))))))  TT



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Sending you my thoughts and prayers.x

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My feelings for you today are deep. I cry thinking about what you have been though so my prayers are strong that one day you will see your son again.



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Hugs and Prayers Betty and thank you for everything .

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Hugs to you, Betty. And thank you.

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I am so sorry Betty. Hugs, positive thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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My heart goes out to you Betty. Wishing you serene and peaceful memories.

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Xxxx hugs xxxx



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hotrod


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Thank you, each and everyone,  for your kind words.  They helped to make this difficult day easier to endure.



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A sad loss, and every mother's worst nightmare. I'm so sorry. Thank you doubly for your service here.

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So sorry to hear, Hotrod.

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Mirandac


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Sorry for your loss

((((((Betty)))))

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((((Sad)))) with you  God hold your heart as you remember.  cry



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Prayers for you Betty.

(((((((Betty)))))))

 

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hotrod


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Thanks again  This Program did save my life and sanity . 



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Betty

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Dear Betty, I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose my son to death. I know that for a long time he was lost to me and I mourned because he was no longer the boy I raised.  He was deep into his additions and could no longer hear me. I reached out to Al-anon and found this site, and you. You were there for me and all others who were experiencing this deadly disease. And through the experience you gained immersing yourself into Al-anon to save your sanity, and in spite of your emotions and even through your grief and sadness you shared with us unselfishly. I couldnt have made it through these last 3 yrs with out your understanding, compassion and wisdom, thank you Betty   linsc



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I am so sorry for your loss, Betty.  It is never easy to lose somebody we love... can't imagine it being my child. cry  Hugs to you.



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Prayers and hugs, Betty. You have offered me a great deal of your ESH and I thank you for that!!!

God Bless!

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I understand your pain completely, as I lost my oldest 18 yrs ago next month. Still not understanding but getting better at getting through each day.

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I'm so sorry for your loss Betty. Loosing a child is an unfathomable pain. Hugs to you.

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Prayers and hugs for you Betty.

Kenny

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Sending you love and prayers, Betty. I'm so sorry for your loss.


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Sending you prayers and love

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