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nycbt


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Wow I have to take a step back an look at my self and look at progress.



  1. When I first came in the program I would call my husband all the time. I couldn't wait to see if he was home.

  2. I would follow him around

  3. I would wait up to see if he would come back

  4. Panick when I didn't know where he was.

  5. Always worried what it was going to be like at home

  6. Couldn't stay away from the hours for any about of time

Now:



  1. I am not calling my husband all the time. I still can't wait to see him when I get home.

  2. I do not follow him around any more.

  3. I don't really wait up for him ( i try not it is going to take time)

  4. I no longer panick when I don't know where he is. ( he rarely doesn't take off any more.)

  5. Now I am going to go to a friend house and stay over night.

How I got to this point



  1. Got a sponsor (working steps)

  2. Set a support group (found a awsome friend that has helped alot.) It is very important to know u don't have to do it alone.

  3. Went to meeting on and off line

 


 



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tea2


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((((((nycbt))))))
Wonderful progress, thank you for sharing your e, s and h.
Many more wishes, tea2

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lildee


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Hi Nycbt,


Great progress keep up the great work. We didn't get "sick" overnight and getting "well" takes time. It looks like you are on the right path. Networking and meetings and just getting all of the negative stuff out is so important. I find that if I hold it in I only wind up with more resentments and problems and more step work. Keep working it your worth it.


Love & God Bless


lildee



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Andrea12


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Ny,

You have made such wonderful progress. Keep it un hon. Wish you only the best life has to offer.

Love Ya,
Andrea

Am very proud of you

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