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Hildabenta


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Hello I am 29 years Kenyan girl with a 10 months son,,I have no job ,,,please I need a sponsor,,,help me,,,I am single



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KennyFenderjazz


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Hi Hilda, do you need an Al Anon sponsor, or are you looking for something else? Please give more background. Thanks!

Kenny

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Hildabenta


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I need a sponsor

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Hildabenta


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Hi Kenny,,I am all alone with my baby life is very hard without a job,,,i am struggling to get food for my son...

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ladybugnessa


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Hi Hildabenta, who in your life is drinking or drugging? An al-anon sponsor will not be able to get money or food for you....

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Hildabenta


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My fathers son is a drunk and he was very abusive ,,,I underwent cecillian during birth and still he was physically abusing me that why I ran away from him,,,I love him and I stayed with him hoping he would change,,,he would come at home at 4am drunk earliest was 1am,,,did I make the best decision,,,and if its the best decision why do i still love him while he was soo bad to mi...and now I am alone with my son



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KennyFenderjazz


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Hi Hilda, Do you have Al Anon meetings in your area? I recommend going to a face to face meeting if they are available to you, you can come back out of crisis mode and be able to rationally think over your decisions. if you don't have face to face meetings, there are online meetings in the chatroom here - look in the upper-left-hand corner of this page for guidance.

Kenny

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ladybugnessa


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Yes leaving the one you love who is drinking is the hardest thing to do. Of course you are sad. You miss the good times. that's normal.

If you are being abused or you are in danger of abuse and you have a small child, you really could do nothing else but leave.

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