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Christy


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My husband is being released tomorrow and is willing to do an out pt. rehab program along w/AA.. I've called the insurance company and got the names of several addiction specialists..the rest is up to him. I doubt he'll be going anywhere for at least a week as he is very sick and puny still. Because of the pneumonia and being in bed for 10 days he gets winded walking 5 ft. to the hospital bathroom.
His liver enzymes were up yesterday but Dr. said he believes that is due to the gazillion meds he is taking.
Wish us luck!! I'm gearing up for the crabbiness..lol I was going to say anything is better then a drunk, but I better not speak too soon. I know I'm in for it and it's not going to be easy street for either of us. Hubby says "we'll make it". :)

Thank you all for caring through this rough time.
Christy

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that is great Christy...I was praying for you and your family...I hope things will continue to get better for you and ur hub.Love you


Lauren~



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Great news. I wish you both all the best, and will keep you in my prayers.

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yippee!!!

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((((((((((((((((((christy))))))))))))))))))))))

I've been praying for you and your A all week and will continue to do so.

So glad he is home and yes,he will probably be moody as hell......but hey? He's got you and you are awesome(((((((((big hugs)))))))))))))))


Chris....(and little ruby!!woof woof....or rather yap,yap!! LOL)



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megan


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Hi Christy


 


That is GREAT news.


I am so happy that he is well enough to go home :)
When my A quit drinking for 5 months he did not go to AA and was dry drunk.


Hang in there



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great christy , but sobriety like u said is not easy nor is it okay to have the A take his bad moods out on you.stick to your boundaries  I told my husb i was sorry he ws having a rough time but that I didnt appreciate his attitude either. Remember u are not the reason he drank and your not going to be the reason he starts again if he chooses to.


Humor helps alot in this crazy transition time , don't take things too personally and enjoy . keep Your expectations low and you will be just fine. This prog works drunk or sober do what it suggests and all will go much more smoothly.


Applaude his efforts but keep the focus on your needs .   good luck



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(((((((((((cujo))))))))))) I've been praying for you all week and I'm so glad your hubby is able to come home tommorow.  I love ya girl, you've been a rock for me since the day I found the chat room.  I'll be here for you and continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. 

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Hey Cjo, I have been praying for you and your family.


It will be challenging for you, but you can do it.


You are not alone.


hugs to ya my friend,


Doxie



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I wish u guys the best in the rough times ahead.

God Bless,
Andrea

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Great news that on him coming home.  I'll continue to pray for you and your family for the times that are to come too.


I love his attitude that you guys will make it after such a terrible row. 


prayers and {{{{cjo, cjo's hubby and cjo's children}}}}


Bob


 



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Christy


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((((all of you))))

Thank you so much for your prayers and support. It meant so much to me. I know that HP hears our prayers and by HP's grace hubby is alive. Thank you for sending those prayers :)

love you all,
Christy

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I havent talked to you in awhile, so I did not know, however, keep close to your alanon friends in these trying times! I know you can do it, and I know your husband can do it, best wishes,,,,,,,gardengal

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