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Hello my friends. I am back. I came into a little money and went out and bought a laptop today. I paid up all of our bills and paid our house payment for the next twelve months. I meet with my attorney tomorrow to pay him so I can get custody of my daughter. I still have not been able to see her. Her dad did let me talk to her on Monday. I was grateful but the conversation was very strained. He offered to bring her down this weekend and let me see her. We'll see if he shows up. He doesn't want to go to court. We are remodeling the house. I am excited and having much fun. I am worried because my husband gets paid tomorrow. I fear that he will use because our bills are paid and he feels like he can blow the money. I am trying not to worry. But I am here if things don't go well.
You should be so proud of yourself. That is a huge step you have made paying your house for the next 12 months as well as all the other things you have achieved. It doesn't matter if he keeps using that is his choice. You are now in control of your own destiny and have peace of mind financially. I hope everything goes well for you with your daughter. Hugs and nice to have you back. Leo xxx
I am so happy for you!! There is no sense in worrying, he is gonna do what he is gonna do. You stick to your goals and your kids. Thought about you a lot, take care.
josey
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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
Welcome back, sounds like you have been "busy" getting your life in order! Good for you, I hope you have remained close to your alanon group during this uncertain times. I know for me if it wasnt for my home group, I would have not gotten this far alone.
