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Thanks to everybody who replied to my posting. This is the first time I meet people who understand my situation. My friends don't. They want me to throw my A out so I would be happy and peaceful and get on with my own life. They don't understand that he is a real nice guy when he is sober (that's why I married him). I realised that I was anything but peaceful when he was gone for 4 days and slept in his car - I was a mess and worried to the max. I am starting to understand the notion of detachment thanks to all of you.