The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I attended a M & a W f2f back in Oct. But due to the excuse of "Its to late in the day" never returned. Was hiding the fact that I attend AlAnon from husband. I did find a Sat morn and do attend every week. (Yesterday I got out of bed, didnt shower/brush teeth put on a baseball hat and off I went - ya I wasnt feeling well at all.) Husband now knows I go and with brother being in Bridgewater thought it was finally time to "up my program".
How many f2f do you attend? and what made you finally increase your meetings?
when i came to alanon..i made a quality decision for my life to attened every meeting i could attend..sometimes i would drive 60 miles to get to one..mostly in the 25 mile range tho
i averaged 4 a week the first year..i listened and learned..and found my sponser.
today i attend 2 regularly, plus make some calls.
but i keep in mind that if i dont feel right, or if something really goes wrong, : its time to go an extra one..as the saying goes.."if your ass falls off put it in a bag and go to a meeting"