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level.
Just found out my husband was arrested for possession of cocaine. He didn't feel the need to share that with me. I found out by accident although he did admit it when I asked. Unbelievable. Can this get any worse?
My boyfriend was arrested and did not share it with me. He is a compulsive liar anyways. He chooses when to share and how and always did. I just did not see it.
Addicts are very difficult people to live with. You deserve to have support and not to take any of it personally.
Yes, my dear, it could be worse. If he had told you, you would be sitting in the can with him. God I am sorry this happened, but you are innocent, so it could be worse. Good luck, Diva
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"Speak your truth quietly and clearly..." Desiderata