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I am looking!!! I caught my a in one too many untruths a week ago and something in me snapped-maybe my mental health stopped in to say hi? sure wish it had stayed longer because I am out but truly struggling. Trying to accept that she is not changing but attempting to manipulate me. Trying to accept that this is/has been a waste of alot of time, love, energy on my part. half of me praying she sees what she is doing,the other half wants her to stay gone. I am in........I dont know what I am in but it is not a fun place and i go from furious to sad to hurt too fast too often to keep up with myself right now. I want a different place and I am trying.
I need (not want NEED) a sponsor, if anyone is interested, has time, please please.
Fran B go back to step one it will help you. You are doing the right thing reaching out to us here we will support you in any way we can. Do something for you that you enjoy to give yourself a break. I am a lone member of al-anon so not in a position to be your sponsor but I am sure someone else will. It will be okay. Luv Leo x
fran, take care of U....U come first ok??? i am glad U reached out to us...that was your FIRST good step in taking care of you...
STEP ONE-------i am POWERLESS over_______________________so i give it UP
STEP TWO------i can't fix this but my hp CAN....there IS a better way so i give IN
STEP THREE----i do have a hp, and hp is all powerful, and hp is only answer to this
so i give OVER
as to the sponser???? what i did was read the posts....watch and observe who is saying what and how do i resonate with that person.....and than i ASKED!!! if a sponser says "no" its becuz they don't think they can help......keep surfing and ask when U feel comfortable about someone...........peace / rosie
