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a just called me. started out ok. we were trying to figure out if he has 3 dui's in ten years. i found a site that tells the sentances possible and stuff.
Next thing I know he is saying all this horrible stuff, how I did this I did that. I did too much for him, he did not deserver a wife like me, then i how I killed my first husband, then how I manipulate him to do work up here. (I paid him!) just all kinds of a bs
then says how he loves me and has always loved me. is in love with me and has tried not to be but can't so he accepts it.
saying all he can remember is the bad stuff in our marriage and living up here with me. just all icky horrible stuff.
then he says, do you think when i got out of jail I will have a chance with you?
CAN YOU BELIEVE IT. the insanity. i said today NO i have no idea what the future is.
what a trip. need to rent a livestock trailor and get the h out of here.
hi (((Debilyn))) he reminds me of Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice. Do you know that book? He struggles in vain not to love Elizabeth but cannot escape AND HE TELLS HER this expecting her to be flattered! Who knows why people think we need to know the bs in their head? Well with all this drama around you, pet a critter or something. Take care -- Jill
If you've seen the movie, this is exactly how "Happy Gilmore" treats his live in girlfriend in the beginning!
If you haven't, bottom line, it sounds like he is manic. That would scare me personally...dunno what to think tho....you probably know him and what to expect best.
Debilyn is your A very far away from you and what sort of back up do you have around you if you need help? Remember this man goes from being loving one minute to violent and not understanding what he his doing in the next breath. To me this is more than some one just raving his mental state is not good. Do whatever you have to to get away from this situation. Take care Luv Leox
Dolphin you are too funny. i never thought about talking bs back to him. I have said oh yea, you are right oh yes i see what you mean.
But wow I should do that. good idea.
I will also be looking at the book mentioned and rent happy gilmore.
I like that guy. no he is not manic, he is alcoholically insane.... if that i a word. I hate hate this disease.
He is all saying how he is budi budi with his "friend." How close they are, blah blah and I say sounds pretty sick uno. so where does your wife fit in here??Well no where of course becuz the wife does not put up with any using and abusing.
How can he be one with me, we don't share being A.
One call and I feel insane too. yuck. love,debilyn
