The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Yesterday my husband gives me a last minute notice that he is going to a late xmas party. I felt bummed in the begin because I couldn't go. Instead of staying upset I set up some stuff for me to do. I went to dinner and then got my nails done. After that I went to the librany and then when the librany closed i went to dunkin dounts. Then he came home and then I went home. So I was so proud of myself for not being bummed on being alone. Before the program I would of been upset and felt bad I couldn't go. I was actually excited that I would be able to do all these things. At all the places but the nail salon i was in the chat room which was nice.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
I read all your posts (even when I can not find anything to reply), and your emails, you are a special person - you have amazing strength.
Glad to hear a good share, look after you!!!! (To Hell with the rest of them, lolol). Hardest thing for me to grasp, was, putting my needs ahead of everyone else's needs - so used to considering others first.
Nails may seem small, insignificant things, but, the point is... something you did for you!
So I was so proud of myself for not being bummed on being alone. Before the program I would of been upset and felt bad I couldn't go. I was actually excited that I would be able to do all these things. At all the places but the nail salon i was in the chat room which was nice.
WONDERFUL progress!!!! i am proud of you, nycbt.......hugs/ rosie
