The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Today went well. Tonight is going well. Had dinner. Talked a little but not too much as to overwhelm either of us. He's done his own laundry. Taken care of his own business. Tomorrow he'll be gone and I won't speak to him for a while. I'm nervous about that, but I'll have to do it. It'll give me time to focus on myself. I don't know what will happen here but I'm happy that I'm at this point. I have no control over what the future holds and I have been able to detach with love. Thank you all and thank you HP. It was with my HPs help that I was able to let go in the first place months ago and it is my HP that has guided me through this time.
What a great example of balance. I have very little of that in my life. I am glad that you are taking care of yourself so well and not futurizing, nor catastrophizing or being over responsible or under responsible. What a great success for you I am glad that reaching out to the program worked so very well for you.