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Barbara · ~*Service Worker*~

ever wish you had someone to give you

confused · Senior Member

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I hope you are ok, just keep coming here, things will get better.

HUGS to you,

Lynn

Barbara · ~*Service Worker*~

thanks Lynn

I just wonder why sometimes my A husband is more interested in his black russians than his wife! Guess its time to get to my bed and leave him to drink with his drinking buddy. Have a good night everyone - tomorrow is a new day.

WakingUp · Senior Member

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Maybe the interesting question is....with the whole Universe to love us, why do we seek love from the A who is lost in their disease and unable to give it?

BTDT, I understand. Sending you love and a hug tonight.

lmt123 · Senior Member

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Yes, Barbara, I have wished that more times than not. I was even so desperate when I was newly divorced from my first husband, that when he came to see our daughter at that time, I actually asked him to hug me!! Not to have a hug from HIM, but just to be hugged by ANYBODY! Something about satisfying our basic human need for touch (safe touch)...

I do like what Waking Up said about why we seek love from the A who is lost in their disease. It just makes no sense to me...why we love them the way we do.

Happy New Year to you and may God bless you richly!

Take care,

Kathi

-- Edited by lmt123 at 13:39, 2006-01-01

-- Edited by lmt123 at 13:40, 2006-01-01

Diane43 · Senior Member

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Heres giving you a big hugg..Happy New Year to you!....keep the focus on you, as you're very special !!

Diane

Jeannie · ~*Service Worker*~

All the time!

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Love Jeannie

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