The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
In more way than one. My husband took my two year old after I had left and after believing his lies once again and missing my baby terribly, I returned to him. I am back home. He is worse off than ever. Apparently he used my leaving as his excuse to really be out there. In the process, the father of my big kids won't let them come home to this environment and I can't blame him, but he won't even let me see them or talk to them on the phone. I am not sure what I want or need to do right now. I have to get off here, but will be bacl later. I need you guys!
I would like to share with you one of the wizest things I have ever heard.
I was in a cab on September 10, (day before 9-11) and was commenting how hard it must be to have more than one kid in this day and age.... then he told me he had 9 kids (yes, nine!!)
I said "wow" how do you do manage!? There is no way I could!!"
He replied with this simple comment:
"my dear, God has a plan for our children long before we do"
Take what you like from that one.
Hang on, I am sure you are on the right path. Pray for guidance and patience. I know it is hard right now, but every second you spend working on yourself is an investment into the future.
