Hello Barbara, walking anywhere and asking for help is humbling since most of us have thought we could do it on our own.  Living with an A is truly too  much for most of us.  I believe that when we  humble ourselves to ask for help we are now teachable.  Alone in our own heads were doomed.

Humility is not humiliation - remember the saying we have all heard for yrs. ? God helps those who help themselves.  Someone told me  thats not true . God helps those who ask.  Makes sence to me .   Al-Anon gets e asier all the time  take a chance and share where your at at this point u have nothing to loose and alot to gain. Never alone again !! what a concept.  good luck  keep on going to meetings  and focus on yourself .    Louise