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After work on Sunday he went out to go to the store to get some stuff. Well after a while I called and he said he was at the store. Then an hour I called and he said he was at the bar getting hammer to come get him. I said no I am not going to get u at the bar. He called again and wanted me to come get him. The old me would of got in my car and went and got him. However the new me said no I am watching tv. So since I didn't get him and when I was ready to go to sleep I called him no answer so I turned off my phone. He had come home alittle after I took the meds to go to sleep. His son while his father was gone was a nervous wreck. I used to be like that and now I wasn't like that. I told his son that I wasn't going to get him. When I was ready to go to sleep he came home. I don't know how he got home.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
Yeah for you!!!!!! It's amazing what we can do when we work our program and our lives include ourselves and do not revolve around the A and the A's doing.
Doesn't it feel goot to take control of our life for a change? When I finally figured out that the alcoholic in my life did not have to have control over my life via transportation, I felt so empowered. Not only did I not have to pick him up, but i discovered that I refused to pick him up to benefit ME, not punish HIM! And to actually see who gets voted off survivor is totally worth it.