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What a weird day. When I got the mail this afternoon, there was something from unemployment for my husband. In case it was important I opened it. it seems after a claims investigator spoke with my husbands boss, they decided to reinstate his unemployment. The check is to follow and will be retroactive from a month ago. It was origionally cancelled because my husband was fired for drinking. I know my husbands former boss is a nice man and was always concerned about the fact that he has a family, I guess he went to bat for him.
Then last night when my husband went into detox, they told him he could not bring his cell phone, so he gace it to me and I put t in my purse. This afternoon it was ringing, so I answered it. It was a friend of his, who was suprised to hear my voice. He asked if my husband was back living at home, and I said no. Then he asked if he could speak to hubby, I said he's not here and he asked why I had the phone. I didn't answer at first and he said Jeannie it's important I reach him, I'm getting busy at work (he owns his own business) and I have work for him through the Holidays, since he is't working, I thought you guys could use the money.
This isn't one of his drinking buddies and the guy has always been nice, so I told him the truth, that he was in detox. He told me that was great, that he needs it, he said I hope it works out for him for all of you. Then he asked how long he would be in, and I said a few days. He told me the offer was still good and if he wants to work to have him call him when he's ready. I told him I would give the message and hung up.
Back unemployment and a job (okay a temp one, but it is money) waiting for him when he is ready. I sat here like an idiot and cried. God seems to be looking out for us right now, things are falling into place, for now at least.
I was actually singing along with the Christmas Carols this radio station was playing this afternoon, way too early. A week ago, I probably would have kicked the radio.
It's amazing how some things just fall into place when we stay out of the way and let them. I needed to type that last sentence because I am so guilty of trying to force things my way, I usually end up botching things up. Thanks for your post, it gives me something to contemplate tonight as I pray and sort through my day.
There are no such things as coincidences - just God incidences. I am always amazed that HP out of the blue finds a way to take care of us. I recently heard that tears are liquid prayers. Your tears today I believe were the prayers of gratitude. May you continue to have the blessings of your HP each and every day - and remember that when you dont feel that HP is working in you - God has not changed his address.
Karen
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Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care. Love you all!
Karen
That is what I call Miracles in Progress,,,,,got goosebumps here and my eyes are tearing up too with joy for you! You deserve good things to happen to you now. I pray that more will come your way. Just remember that even at detox if they relapse,,,,that relapses are lessons for them so they can stay clean and sober and really want it. Some people get their hopes up too high. My daughter had many relapses but finally is staying clean and sober because that is what she finally decided she wants. Just sharing my experience. You remember how down I use to get when she would relapse? Keep coming for support. I will be saying prayers for you and your husband and your family. xoxoxoxo happy times ahead for you cdb :)
I agree with Lou about forcing things. I too, am guilty of that. I think it's one of my worst faults. I try and work hard on that one. A few days ago I was ready to leave my job with no job to go to. But I had to stop and take a look at things. Instead of being spontaneous and stupid in this economy, I'm going to make it my primary goal for next year of finding a job I really love.
I'm glad things are falling into place for you. Yes your HP is definetly working for you. You go ahead and sing all those Christmas songs, I'll join you! Deck the Halls with ....
Live strong, Karilynn
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
We have to treasure every special moment in this crazy world! I really believe that HP is listening! Thanks for sharing this with us, we all know not to get our hopes up too much, but it's so nice to see progress, and to be able to treasure the positive moments. Positive thoughts and prayers headed your way, Love TLC
Thanks for sharing the ggod things happening in your life-omg look what I typed!!! And thanks for the laugh at the end, about last week kicking the radio, just gave me a good chuckle.
I'm so happy for you, you deserve some cheer in your life!!!
Deck the Halls with .... 