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okay so heres the deal, I can not let this one go....
yesterday I posted about the dog, Im going to a retret this weekend and my bf was having issues about where the dog is going. thx to all your comments I have decided to give him to my brother and wife, who are real dog lovers, they live on a 5acr farm and all is good. Or so I thought?.....I still struggle in the back of my mind about what my bf said to me. He is afraid the dog might run, how can the dog run if he is on a lead? My sister in law, I told her this and she promised me that she would watch the dog and he would be aloud in the house. After thinking about it, I changed my mind and I booked the kennel, when I called my sister in law and brother to tell them, she was like "no-no" bring him here she hates kennels. So again I said are you sure, and even told her about the bf's concern. She was very persistant. So he is going to the farm. I have not spoken to BF since the other night, and I leave today. So I must trust that HP is going to protect dog and me from harm.
Please pray that "RITZ" the DOG, will not wonder and that this will be the first of many times he visits with aunty and uncle....lol
The fact that you are kind, loving and responsible to take care of this doh when it isn't yours speaks volumes about you. If there is one thing that drives me crazy it's people who are not responsible for their pets. How can they take care of children if they can't a pet. You do what you have to so that the dog and you can have an enjoyable weekend. He has no right to complain. If he does, then tell him the next time he can take responsibility. Enjoy your weekend. I'm sure doggie will be just fine.
Live strong, Karilynn
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Lets you and me turn that dog and its daddy over to their HP's! I hope that you and Ritz each have a fantastic retreat weekend in a place that brings you beauty and love peace and joy, and that neither of you feel the need to run away!
Have a great time and don't worry--everything is just as it should be.
Our HP has a plan, and sometimes when we aren't following it, He makes us follow it.....
Maybe that is the case here???
Have an awesome weekend, and trust that your HP has a plan that you are to follow. Your bf can get as mad as he wants. He trusts you enough to look after the dog, I am sure you have a good head on your shoulders.
Thank you all, yes I am a very bright, talented and smart young lady. I have been taught well and I would trust my brother and wife to care for my children so I trust that the dog shall far very well there too.
Have a good weekend sunny1. RITZ will be happy as a clam...*hmmmm...wonder if clams are really happy*...You're a great gal. You have shown loving care to this dog. This speaks volumes about your character.
With best regards, Diva
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