The material presented
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to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I read your responses to my earlier email and thanks for kickin' my butt back into play. It was a very weird feeling I had...I hadn't felt that concerned about whether or not he was using in a while and for some strange reason, it bothered me this time. Not to the point of obsessing, I called two times...not 47 and I made 0 effort to find out where he was (drove around etc..) I kept to my plans, enjoyed my friends this morning and eventually heard from him. He sounded fine, not hungover or anything. The issue is not whether or not he was doing something, it was what do i want to do about the fact that I think he might be. That is what I need to concentrate on. Thanks for giving me a little perspective.