The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
You guys are the best! I was almost afraid to post, my friends and family have been supportive with me, and you all have been there. I was afraid of the negative, but you all have come through once again giving me examples of living with an active A. My expectations are realistic. I do not expect that my A will change, I know now that I can not change him. I also know that there are things I can accept and things that I will not accept. I have learned in the last year about healthy boundries. I wanted you to know that in the last year I have started praying again! In the last 6 months I have Let go and am Letting God. I have so much faith I would never have found without Alanon. I will do my best to take care of me and to make the changes I need to make. You are all in my prayers.
