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Well, I guess I too have had my fill. After he came stumbling in past 3 this morning, we had some words. Not a lot as I soon remembered I was getting sucked in. This morning I got ready to do some errands and asked him what his plans were the weekend, he said why? I said we need to talk, he said okay....then I looked at him and realized I don't even know this man anymore. I simply said....you have to go. He said okay, made a phone call and after I left, he moved his things out. The emotional roller coaster today is tough, but I will be okay. I know for the time being this is what "I" need. I would rather worry about how to pay bills then to live in the insane eviorment I have been living.
I admire your strength. It is sometimes hard to know what to do and even more difficult to follow through. IT sounds as if you did what was right for you at the time. I hope it works out well. I also hope that you find yourself strengthened and find peace. I envy you that he left so easily.
Now what? You will get on with your life and take care of you. It will be different, perhaps hard at times, but it is what is best for you. I envy you too.
Take care and keep us posted on your progress, we care.
I too envy you!!! I wish it was that easy for my husband to leave. But I know that it is still hard for you. I hope you are ok. You are just doing what you need right now. You are in my prayers
Wow I wish I am as strong as you are. RIght now I am dealing with it in hope that he will see the light and get help. He was in the program for six months and now he isn't going to any program. The only thing that is helping a little is his paxil.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
