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I talked to him today. I told him that I would like a divorce.  I asked if we could keep it civil and not fight as we have not been married that long.  I have asked for only what I brought into the marriage.  I have told him that what he brought into the marriage is his.


He is very angry and upset. He says that the divorce is my fault, that I am the one who does not keep promises and that I cannot be please.  Whatever.


 


 



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ditto, I have grown to like you very much just through reading your posts. You are smart and sensible. You'll be just fine. My prayers and positive thoughts are with you as you see your way through this troubling time. Hang in there girl!! Diva

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Hi Diva,


Thank you very much. Your encouragement, well-wishes, and kindness means the world to me.  Obviously, I am scared, worried, frightened, but heck.... this is no life either.


 



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Wow Ditto, I envy your strength.  Best of luck to you.


You're so right when you say "this is no life either". 


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Wow,  ditto,   great job!!!!  it hurts, but in the end, we are always best  *being true to ourselves*   my prayers are with you....rosie

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good for you ditto.  I'm right there with you in the "this is no life either".  God bless you and good luck.

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I too admire you for your strength to know when enough is enough. When you think about it this is "our" life as well. This is not a dress rehearsal, this is it. We need to do what is right for us, and if this is right for you to do, then so be it. I wish you the best of luck. I am currently going thru a nasty divorce, and it is not easy. Hopefully yours will be more civil. Take care,,,,,,gardengal

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