The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
So I was happier today but i didn't want to work & finish my project, I wanted to hang w/ mom. The A is being so irritating, the last few days he is just not leaving my mother alone. I cannot believe he wants to poke her fire ~ just leave her alone! Can't he see she needs space? Doesn't he realize how he hurt her?
I guess not. The A's realize nothing - and still lost "in their own worlds". I think he lucky she is even willing to still talk to him! I am having trouble, I don't want to even see him. I am trying to give my mom support and strength. I cannot understand him & still want to gauge his eyes out!
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Light, Love, Peace, Blessings & Healing to Us All. God's Will Be Done. Amen.
You are hurt, too. The "A" is hanging around to ensure that he still has control of his realm. As he works the program, he will come to know that he does not have control. Perhaps then you will begin to see the changes wrought by self-knowledge. Perhaps then we will all be happier.