The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I too am dealing with the issue of not being with my spouse....I spent about 15 minutes a few nights ago just sobbing, I think it was my acceptance of my HP plans. I have been building a good support system. I don't hide anything from anybody anymore. If my A doesn't come home I talk about it with other people. If he's being a jerk, I no longer cover it up. This is who he is.