When I meet my husband 5 + yrs ago we used to fight something awful. We would get into physical fights. I would throw things, bite him and we would fight in the car.

In the begin of time he was doing drugs and drinking. I wasn't aware he was doing drug until later on when I started to find stuff around the house that was used for the drugs. When I found this stuff out I used to be so angry and not know what to do.

I stayed with him because I loved him. We wnet through so much. At the time he was in trouble with the law and had to go to probration. He had to get drug tested. He later has told me that he had some one else urine to show a negative progress. I was upset when I heard that but there was nothing I could do about it. I felt so used.

He has two older kids who are around my age and are jelouse of me. His daughter has a drug and drinking problem. So when we get together with her there is usullay alchol there. So I have felt very out of place because I don't drink.

Now a days even though I call him alot he loves me very much. We hug and cuddle. We do things together. I just have a problem calling him to see how he is doing.

We live together and sleep in the same bed. I am lucky that for today he is no longer doing drugs or drinking. He is not in trouble with the law and hasn't been for 5 plus years. The good thing is though if he didn't get in trobule that time we would of never meant. It was because he got in trobule and stayed by a friends house is how we meet. So that was a good thing.

He has gotten him self together and he is drinking now and he is paying the bills and taking over where my mom left off. Before he meet me he wasn't paying his bills. My credit is very good between my mom and him. I am glad that he has come around to be more responsible.