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I heard this song on a country station the other day and just had to look up the lyrics. It made me laugh in an ironic way - since lately (even though I have been TRYING to work the program) my life is pretty much consumed with thoughts about drinking and alcohol and drunkenness..... So, I had to laugh when the song came on and alcohol was already on my mind.... oh.... the irony of it all....
Alcohol: Brad Paisley.
I can make anybody pretty. I can make you believe any lie. I can make you pick a fight with somebody twice your size. Well, I’ve been known to cause a few break-ups, An' I’ve been known to cause a few births. Well, I can make you new friends, or get you fired from work.
And since the day I left Milwaukee, Lynchburg an' Bordeaux, France, Been making the bars lots of big money, An' helpin' white people dance. I got you in trouble in High School, But College, now that was a ball. You had some of the best times you’ll never remember with me: Alcohol; Alcohol.
I got blamed at your wedding reception, For your best man’s embarrassing speech. And also for those naked pictures of you at the beach. I’ve influenced Kings and world leaders, I helped Hemingway write like he did. And I’ll bet you a drink or two, that I can make you put that lampshade on your head.
‘Cause since the day I left Milwaukee, Lynchburg and Bordeaux, France, I been making a fool out of folks just like you, An' helping white people dance. I am medicine and I am poison, I can help you up or make you fall. You had some of the best times you’ll never remember with me: Alcohol.
Yeah, since the day I left Milwaukee, Lynchburg an' Bordeaux, France, Been making the bars lots of big money, (Helpin' white people dance.) Yeah, I got you in trouble in High School, But College, now that was a ball. You had some of the best times you’ll never remember with me: Alcohol; Alcohol.
Highway 101 had a song years ago that I used to think about a lot:
He's told me a million times he's sorry, I always take him back, though soon I know. He'll spend the night with you and leave me crying You don't love him but you won't let him go
Oh, whiskey, if you were a woman I'd fight you and I'd win, Lord knows I would Oh, whiskey, if you were a woman, I'd drive you from his tangled mind for good
Whatever you could do I'd do it better You'd never be the woman I could be But you don't have a heart or any feelings s So I can't even ask for sympathy
No i ain't had nothing to drink I knew thats probably what you'd think If i dropped by this time of night Remember way back when I promised you i'd drop in At one of those meetings down at the y
Well, they started talkin bout steps you take Mistakes you make The hearts you break And the price you pay I almost walked away
You could hear a pin drop When this old man Stood up and said i'm gonna' say it again Like i do every week For those who don't know me
It's the simple things in life Like the kids at home and a loving wife That you miss the most, when you lose control And everything you love starts to disappear The devil takes your hand and says no fear Have another shot, just one more beer Yah, i've been there, that's why i'm here
This ole boy stood up in the aisle Said he'd been living a life of denial
And he cried as he talked about wasted years I couldn't believe what i heard It was my life word for word And all of the sudden it was clear
It's the simple things in life Like the kids at home and a loving wife That you miss the most, when you lose control And everything you love starts to disappear The devil takes your hand and says no fear Have another shot, just one more beer Yah, i've been there, that's why i'm here
I know for us it may be too late But it would mean the world to me If you were there when i stand to say It's the simple things in life Like the kids at home and a loving wife That you miss the most, when you lose control And everything you love starts to disappear The devil takes your hand and says no fear Have another shot, just one more beer Yah, i've been there, that's why i'm here Oh, i've been there, that's why i'm here
I remember lookin' up to look up to him. An' I remember, most the time he wasn't there. I'd be waitin' at the door when he got home at night. He'd pass me by to go pass out in his chair.
An' I'd sing: "Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're swayin', side to side. "Your footsteps make me dizzy, "And no matter how I try, "I keep trippin' an' stumblin'. "If you'd look down here, you'd see: "Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're leading me."
He stumbled in the gym on graduation day. An' I couldn't help but feel so ashamed. An' I wasn't surprised a bit when he didn't stay, He stumbled out before they called my name.
An' I thought:"Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're swayin', side to side. "It's not just me who's watching, "You've caught everybody's eye. "And you're trippin' an' stumblin', "And even though I've turned eighteen, "Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're still leading me."
The old man's still like he always was, But I love him anyway. If I've learned one thing from him, It's my kids will never have to sing:
"Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're swayin', side to side. "Your footsteps make me dizzy, "And no matter how I try, "I keep trippin' an' stumblin'. "If you'd look down here, you'd see: "Walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're leading me."
"Yeah, walk a little straighter, Daddy, "You're leading me."
Is Highway 101 the singer of the song you posted the lyrics of? If not is it the title of the song? Can you please tell me who sings that song and what the title is?
I don't have the lyrics but what about Brad Paisley's and Alison Krauss Whiskey Lullaby or the real oldy it makes me cry every time called Wine into Water by T. Graham Brown, if you go to Yahoo music videos http://music.yahoo.com/musicvideos/ you can hear the song its so beautiful and one last one to check is Tim McGraw Drugs or Jesus.
I have never heard this song, but I found the lyrics for us...
Wine Into Water: T. Graham Brown.
You've heard a multitude of prayers on my behalf. I pray one more is not too much to ask. I've tried to fight this battle by myself. But it's a war that I can't win without your help.
Tonight, I'm as low as any man can go. I'm down and I can't fall much farther. And once upon a time, you turned the water into wine. An' now, on my knees, I'm turning to you, Father. Could you help me turn the wine back into water?
So many times I've hurt the ones I love. I pushed them to the edge of giving up. They've stood by me but how much can they stand, If I don't put this bottle in you hands?
Tonight, I'm as low as any man can go. I'm down and I can't fall much farther. And once upon a time, you turned the water into wine. An' now, on my knees, I'm turning to you, Father. Could you help me turn the wine back into water?
I shook my fist at heaven for all the hell that I've been through. Now I'm beggin' for forgiveness and a miracle from you.
'Cause tonight, I'm as low as any man can go. I'm down and I can't fall much farther. And once upon a time, you turned the water into wine. An' now, on my knees, I'm turning to you, Father. Could you help me turn the wine back into water?
This one can bring a tear to your eye, too, especially if you see the video.
Whisky Lullaby
Brad Paisley & Allison Kraus
She put him out Like the burning end of a midnight cigarette She broke his heart He spent his whole life trying to forget
We watched him drink his pain away A little bit at a time But he never could get drunk enough To get her off his mind Until the night
He put the bottle to his head and pulled the trigger He finally drank away her memory Life is short But this time it was bigger Than the strength he had to get up off his knees
We found him with his face down in the pillow With a note that says I'll love her till I die And when we buried him beneath the willow The angels sang a whiskey lullaby
La x 7 La x 7 La x 7 La x 7
The rumors flew But nobody knew How much she blamed herself For years and years She tried to hide the whisky on her breath
She finally drank her pain away A little at a time But she never could get drunk enough To get him off her mind Until the night
She put the bottle to her head and pulled the trigger And finally drank away his memory Life is short but this time it was bigger Than the strength she had to get up off her knees
We found her with her face down in the pillow Clinging to his picture for dear life We laid her next to him beneath the willow While the angels sang a whisky lullaby
She said I'm not pointing fingers He said yes you are 'Cause you wouldn't bring it up if you weren't If I told you I'd been walking Out in the dark night thinking Would you take as truth this alcoholic's word I can't change what's done is done But I can tell you this Not a day goes by that I Don't curse myself and all my sins And I need you to hold on to While this part of me is dying And though I haven't kicked the demons That haunt me I'm Trying I'm Trying
She sat down on the floor And said I wish I was stronger Right now I feel fragile as glass I want to believe you Believe what's held you has freed you And I hate these doubts That keep on coming back My parent's think I'm crazy For staying here this long But there's nothing more I want for us Than to prove to them they're wrong I don't want to be afraid I don't want to think you're lying And though I haven't found the faith That I need I'm Trying I'm Trying
He asked do you want me to leave 'Cause if you do you know I will But she said much to his disbelief No I love you still Oh I love you still
He said I don't know why I've been the fool But I can tell you this Not a day goes by that I Don't curse myself and all my sins Then he dropped down to his knees By now they both were crying He said I haven't been the man I want to be But I'm Trying I'm Trying I'm Trying believe me I'm Trying
(I found a couple of links to songs about drinking... one was a CD called Share: Songs of Hope, Awareness, & Recovery For Everyone. The other is about a special that's going to be on CMT (Country Music Television) June 13 with the 40 best "drinking songs", a lot of thos are songs to drink to, but some are songs about recovery or living with an alcoholic. I was busy looking this up in order to avoid arguing last night.... I didn't find many songs about drinking that weren't country music... but if I have more time to avoid arguing, I will look for more. I enjoyed doing that last night. Here's one that was listed, I thought that this one was funny. )
I'm gonna Hire A Wino: David Frizell.
I came crawling home last night, like many nights before: I finally made it to my feet as she opened up the door. And she said, "You're not gonna do this anymore."
She said: "I'm gonna' hire a wino to decorate our home, "So you'll feel more at ease here, and you won't have to roam. "We'll take out the dining room table, and put a bar along that wall. "And a neon sign, to point the way, to our bathroom down the hall."
She said: "Just bring your Friday paycheck, and I'll cash them all right here. "And I'll keep on tap - for all your friends, their favorite kinds of beer. "And for you, I'll always keep in stock, those soft aluminum cans. "And when you're feeling macho, you can crush them like a man."
She said: "We'll rip out all the carpet, and put sawdust on the floor. "Serve hard boiled eggs and pretzels, and I won't cook no more. "There'll be Monday night football, on T.V. above the bar. "And a pay phone in the hallway, when your friends can't find their car."
She said: "I'm gonna' hire a wino to decorate our home, "So you'll feel more at ease here, and you won't have to roam. "We'll take out the dining room table, and put a bar along that wall. "And a neon sign, to point the way, to our bathroom down the hall."
She said: "You'll get friendly service, and for added atmosphere. "I'll slip on something sexy, and I'll cut it clear to here. "Then you can slap my bottom, every time you tell a joke. "Just as long as you keep tipping, well, I'll laugh until you're broke."
She said: "Instead of family quarrels, we'll have a bar-room brawl, "When the Ham's bear say's its closing time, you won't have far to crawl. "And when you run out of money, you'll have me to thank. "You can sleep it off next morning, when I'm putting it in the bank."
She said: "I'm gonna' hire a wino, to decorate our home, "So you can feel more at ease here, and you won't have to roam. "When you and your friends get off from work, and have a powerful thirst. "There won't be any reason, why you can't stop off here first."
She said: "I'm gonna' hire a wino to decorate our home, "So you'll feel more at ease here, and you won't have to roam. "We'll take out the dining room table, and put a bar along that wall. "And a neon sign, to point the way, to our bathroom down the hall."