I finally made a decision.  Many of you may recall that i was having a difficult time deciding whether or not I want my husband to move out.  After much talking and watching him make efforts to change, I have decided that I am not ready to throw away our marriage.  I love him.  I have set boundaries that I hope I can stick to.  I feel as if a burden has been lifted off my shoulders and feel as if I made a decision based on what I wanted and not what other people expected.  I feel very good today, but we both know that we both have much work to do.