The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
So I posted the other day about how things between my AH and how in using the steps for me has made such a difference.
So A phoned lastnight to say he was stopping at a friends to have a visit, Fine with me I had told him and mentioned that if it was late just to spend the night there...so...we hung up and a few minutes later went to make a call and I here my A talking to some one in the background, he's telling this guy how great his wife is because she lets him do pretty much what he wants and can stay out as late as he wants so on and so on... The thing he ommitted from the conversation was the fact that he has actually been comming home at night.
I work the steps and he begins to change to great concept. I never would have thought that this would have happened and even with out him really realizing it..