The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I got everything moved last night. I am worn out. Now everything is a huge mess, boxes everywhere and I am camped out for a day or so. I have to go back tonight and clean up the old place and hand over the keys. That'll really be it for the night. Then tomorrow I can begin the task of organixing and reorganizing my stuff into a tiny space.
So far so good on the dog front The neighbors seem to like her. She is happy having a regular routine. I am happy having her and not being besieged with guilt and worry. I have not heard from the A for 4 days now.
This move has been one of the "last straws" fo rme. The a expects me to bend over backwards and fork out all my money to him and support him unconditionally. He can't even carry a box for me. He always minimizes and ignores my needs. I do not need that anymore. I've spokent to him ad nauseum about the issue he ignores it. Now he will no longer have my support so he acts like a victim. He is good at that.
Aren't they all. Poor little victim of your own circumstance HUH? Except they never see that it's their own circumstance. You are doing a great job of letting go! I'm so glad you're done with the move, I will be Sooooo relieved when mine is over!
