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Well it has been rough here lately. I found a place to live YAY!! Other than that, my kids have been sick and still are so the whole month was basically a loss to sickness for either me or them. I am feeling unmotivated about packing and selling and getting rid of stuff and moving in general. I have been having serious issues at work the past couple of days that look bad on me but aren't my fault. Soooo I'm in this too shall pass mode! I'll be glad when we have some of that boring normalcy again!
Hey Carolinagirl - I have been wondering how things have been going with you. I am sorry that all of you have been sick. It is terrible when the whole family is sick....especially being the mom and being sick and still having to take care of everything.
It is good news that you found a place to live. Yahooooo!!!! I completely understand about the motivation to pack up and get rid of stuff. When I moved back in Jan....I had no motivation to pack anything....of course until the last minute when all of a sudden I realized I had better get busy or I would be in a world of trouble. The unpacking is the worst. I have boxes everywhere still. I have no place for it all now. My china is still boxed up and my china cabinet has been turned into a junk collector. I hate that. I feel so unorganized. I reckon part of my problem is I have a lot of my AH crap sitting around, taking up space that I need in order to sort through my stuff. He is using my house as a storage unit b/c he doesn't have a steady place to live. He is bouncing around from place to place. He comes by and picks up miscellaneous stuff he needs here and there but the bulk still stays where he left it. Pisses me off.
Oh well, try to keep your chin up. Find some positive vibes from somewhere today and float with them a while. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Sincerely, QOD
what a lot you have been through. I am in serious look mode at the moment. Thankfully I have a job so the finance issue is not as pressing. The place I put the A in is not working out. Of course he is as clueless as ever. Unless it is about drugs or some friend he is idolizing he can't do anything!!!!
I am so so glad for you that things are moving forward. I know the tedium of moving and packing and reorganizing. You have done some serious needs analysis and I admire that.
