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Absolutely....it is just where I am right now. Trying to let go of the self victim....knowing that what happened between me and the A was painful, but also loving.....and I need to let go of the judgement around it. Perhaps say... it was hurtful...instead of he hurt me. Detachment? Thanks for the positive thought! Fifi
It occurred to me that when we say things like ''He insulted me, he hurt me'' we are giving our power away and brings to mind one of our daily readings which, in simplicity, says ''offence is taken, not given''. Even if offence is intended, if I do not 'take' it then it has no power to hurt me. Just my tuppence ha'penny. x Maria x
