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for beginners


This is when I started Alanon about 2+ years ago. When I first started I was angry because I found bottles that he was drinking the airplane bottles and I was very upset. A couple of days later I saw some progress I decided to give one work answer to his questions when he was drunk instead of fighting with him. I would come online and talk to the mip people until I was ready to go to sleep or calm down. Now 5 weeks I tried to go to meeting twice a week and at this time he started AA. I was nervous at this time what life would be like if he stop drinking would I be able to handle it since I was used to him drinking all the time. At this time I have been in Alanon for about a month now. I started to feel that I was learning about myself more and started to talk about myself more. I started to work on not react so much to his drinking. I was though still looking for at bottles.  He was drunk and instead of picking up the phone so that he could arugue with me I didnt pick up the phone and I went to a meeting. As still being new I was learning how to deal with my angry that what brought was I put my fist thu glass, so I decided to get help. It going to be three months big change with myself I care about myself more, I am to dress better.


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