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~*Service Worker*~

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knowing the cycle


right now the A is in his get back into gear mode. That is usually the time he is nice to me. Of course starved as I am I usually jump at it.

Everything in his life is a huge secret, a huge intrigue.  This time I am not intriuged. He pulls me in so many different ways.

I am intrigued by his crisis, secrecy and drama.

I am working superhard to detach but its very difficult.

I have another job interview tomorrow.  Please pray I get it.  I need the job desperately.

Maresie.

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maresie


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Maresie,

You recognized that it is dragging you in, that is a huge step. Keep working at the small things you need to do to detach. Take a walk, make a call, whatever.

Will keep good thoughts and put a word in above that this job is what you need.

evey

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(((((((Maresie)))),

Prayers on the way.  I have all my fingers, toes, legs, and arms crossed.  Pipers Kitty has her tail crossed too.  wink  You're doing really well at your program.  Detaching is not the easiet thing in the world.  But it can be liberating and empowering.

Love and blessings to you and your family.

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty smile


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Hi (((((Maresie)))))),

You are doing so well, just keep on keeping on. Stay strong and hang in there.

Doxie

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~*Service Worker*~

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((((Maresie))))  you're always in my prayers for your prayers to be answered.... biggrin.gif  i do hope this interview is a good one for you too.  giggle.gifkeep your chin up. be confident and most of all trust your own instincts.  Your such a  strong and very loving person.  I know you will find the right job and everything is going to be wonderful! smile.gifHP has a plan for You.  Keep the Faith.  Keep Looking uPsun.gif.

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~*Service Worker*~

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Good job sweetie. I am proud of you. Keep on with being focused.

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((mare))

i know those feelings... ugh.  keep working your program.  if i do a good job of keeping my conscious contact, i seem better equipped to detach.  also knowing that HP puts things (people, jobs, lessons) in my life that i need keeps me from being anxious, irritable and discontent.  absolute surrender, absolute acceptence - it is my path and i will walk it.

love you, my friend
cj

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~*Service Worker*~

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(((Mare))))

Praying for you right now that your job interview goes well.

yours in recovery,
Maria

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