And OMGOSH .. LOL .. it almost got ugly this town is not big enough we almost wound up at the same place for lunch.  He thought it was a good idea to take them to a "bar" it's actually the local pool hall.  My son plays there on Saturday's.  I have no idea what possessed him that was a good idea .. their dad.  This has become my latest passion to say the least .. I enjoy shooting pool it's the one place I can quiet my mind completely and I have total focus there have been more than one moment that I just enjoy going out and playing pool.  I can loose myself for hours it's no different than reading for me. 

Anyway, act of God .. LOL .. the pool hall was closed until later today thank GOODNESS. AWKWARD MUCH??  My son and I will be headed out that direction when they open. 

He went on about seeing the kids and how much he wants to .. to me that translates to when it's convenient to him it has nothing to do with the kids really.  He could have had the kids ALL weekend if that was the case literally from Friday through Monday and the kids tried and he said he was busy as he works every Saturday and then he was out of town on Sunday.  

This is where my sickness kicks in I think that one moment means everything is ok and that's just not the case.  The kids are very insistent that they do not want to go over unless the NW is home they say she keeps him in line at least for the time being.  That is a good thing.  Although I find it funny they try and talk to the kids about money and my daughter is a serious pro at redirecting the appropriate responses in terms of .. no Dad we don't talk money .. you need to talk to mom about it.  I have no idea where you guys are at in terms of communication .. this is not a topic for discussion with me. 

He's still trying to do the whole I pay for this and that so I don't need to pay more child support .. I think I'm ok in terms of stuff. 

We will see.  I want court to be scheduled sooner than later at this point we will see what happens with that.  I do not trust him in the least and I have a lot coming at me this summer. 

hugs S :)